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...... what is the best you have every had..... was it remarkable..... i keep reliving the thoughs of my ex and the way we had pionate, crazy, sensual, mind blowing sex.. that was 4years ago. our relationship ended badly. i have been with my now bf for 3years... and the sex well um.... isnt what it was with me ex. not saying my ex WAS a god in bed. but the way we conected while having sex. I have tried everything with my current bf to SPICE things up.. but its not there. I love him.. but miss really good sex..... yes yes i know a relationship isnt just based on sex..... but i belive it is a healthy part of a relationship.... what was your best. and what made it the best for you???!!! longest answer will get best answer be informational plz... thx denise