HAVE ANY LADIES ATTENED A CFNM PARTY?

its realy a party for the ladies that male waiters are while the ladies stay clothed cfnm stands for clothed female male .Also the ladies can have there way with the men getting drinks and touching measuring anything there please i have even heard stories of ladies at these parties haveing the men w a n k it for them or anything the woman please .Its mostly empowering for the ladies i guess to have this kinda controll.have any of you ladies been to a party like this or would it be a tottal turn off and get a no thanks not interested?